Tuesday, October 6, 2020

My husband and I wrote these vows to each other before we tangibly met. We often skyped for many hours, going past 24 hours on several occasions, me singing Jamie to sleep and waking up to each other's morning faces on screen, because we lived 6 hours away from each other. Neither of us had vehicles. Jamie asked my dad for permission to marry me, he said yes, and so we married under the covenant of God.


Message from my Husband Jamie, Me and my wife Kristy's marriage from the very beginning was based on our vows that we exchanged with each other before our living God.  It is a covenant that we both made before God and to God and that will be stronger than any marriage ever performed at any altar whether it be a church or a government building.  


So, I say this, people don't be so obsessed with your fancy expensive wedding ring or your wonderful extravagant wedding that costs thousands and thousands of dollars because in reality if it is not a marriage covenant contract between the two of you and God then chances are it will end up in a big ugly divorce in your very near upcoming future. When God is left out of everything then it is destined to fail!


M A R R I A G E  💝  V O W S


I just want to thank you for opening up to me and writing me all the beautiful things that you write me in your emails. You have such a beautiful Pure Heart and Soul.  And you're such a beautiful woman and I would love nothing more to have you as my wife. It would be an honor to have you as my wife and for us to become one under God our lord Jesus.  I would be the happiest man in the world to have you as my wife forever and ever.  And I promise under God to always love you unconditionally and to always take care of you the way a loving husband takes care of his loving wife.  And I would be so grateful and blessed to have your love and your heart with me forever.  And I'm looking forward to us sharing everything together from our thoughts and our feelings and every aspect of Our Lives as man and wife. 


I look forward to those nights of holding you tight and cuddling with you as you sleep and hearing your heartbeat because it will only make my heartbeat with love and peace.  I long for every day to be with you and to be laughing with you and spending every moment with you and learning with you and worshiping the Lord Jesus everyday with you in scripture and prayer. 


And I look forward to Growing with You in our marriage and with the Lord Jesus as he joins us together as one happily married couple.  And bonds us together and makes the bond so strong between us with Jesus's loving arms that nothing will ever get between us, and no force will ever tear us apart. 


For me and you know that God has brought us together and he will bring us together in marriage under the Lord's Covenant.  And I will always love you with all my heart and soul and always bow before you and treasure you and honor you and stay faithful to you.  And every night and every day I will pray to the Lord on my knees that he will protect you my love Kristy and keep you safe and keep me safe as well so we can stay together until he comes to take us home.  And Kristy I will dedicate my unconditional love to you from this day forward and forever! 


Love your future husband.


Jamie.

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One of the funniest things Jamie told me when we first became friends online was, "I like to run around at night and bark like a dog, waking up the neighbors."                        

Hook-Line and S T I N K E R



Jesus, I asked you long ago, when I was 23 years old, to guide me in my marriage, if you were to bless me with the precious gift of a husband. After I sacrificed my own, personal, dirty ways of the earth, which one of those dirty ways took many years to eradicate, you brought me Jamie, and I can never thank you enough.


Jamie, I want you to be my husband no matter what life throws at us. Secret to life long, monogamous marriage vows are always instilled for life within you and I, together as a team…


Dear God, Jehova, our Creator, I do take thee, Jamie Wayne Clark, as my humble bumble bee of humility, as my diplomatic diamond mind of tranquility and space time, as the needle in the haystack of my heart, as my unconditionally loving opal tree where your name is carved upon my heart of three known as the Trinity, Tree Nutty, We Tree Kings and the Tree of Life, Wife & Husband.


I Am Forever Taken by J.W.C. and of course J.C. my Saviour, without either one of them I am nothing. J.W.C. is carved on the tree of my heart. J.W.C. is my earthly tangible treasure tree sure and he is me spiritual treasure, my diamond diplomat, my unconditionally loving opal, my trustworthy family tree, my humble bumble bee everything. I have waited since 1998 for him. Thank you, Jesus, and thank you Jamie for giving me a peep on this Christian social media, so I could peep back and love you the way you deserved to be loved. No matter what life throws at us, we are a team of unconditional love, trust, respect, humble acceptance of each other AS IS, and respectful of each other's sacred spirit which is unique as all other spirits, including animals and tree spirit too. I love you, Jamie.


I take thee Jamie Wayne Clark, Through living and dying, burping and farting, laughing and crying, Through good times and bumps, and challenging jumps, Through nurturing love and positive hearts, Through tummy’s and noses that have a few farts, Through quirks and quarks and snuggly snorks, Through trust, commitment, responsibility and faith, Through patience, repentance, humility, and truth, Through understanding, forgiveness, prayers and respect, Through rough patches, sufferings, health and healing. To honor and obey Christ Jesus through the Holy Spirit that we may let the chips fall where they may, Through unconditional Agape love, tough love, loyalty and cherishing each other, Humbly under Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. The Father, The Son and The Holy Ghost will always be our chaperone host.




I came across this song back in 2015. This song reminds me of you, Jamie. I would melt if you were to learn this song, somehow possibly sing it. Even if you don’t learn this song, it reminds me of youI call this song our song.



Meet me in the middle of the day


Let me hear you say everything's okay


Bring me southern kisses from your room

Meet me in the middle of the night


Let me hear you say everything's alright


 

Oh God’s right here

 

We'll rise and fall

 

And there’s always something more

 

Lost in talk

 

I watch the game

 

And it’s all been said before

 

While further down behind the masquerade

 



The tears are there

 

I don’t ask for all that much

 

I just want someone to care

 

That’s right now

Meet me in the middle of the day

Let me hear you say

 

Everything's okay

Come on out beneath the shining sun

Meet me in the middle of the night

Let me hear you say

 

Everything's alright

Sneak on out beneath the stars and run yeah



Oh yeah, yes

Oh yeah

It's king and queen and we must go down now

Beyond the chandelier

Where I won't have to speak my mind

And you won't have to hear

Shreds of news and afterthoughts

And complicated scenes

We'll weather down behind the light

And fade like magazines…

Eye Eye Eye

 

Love is alright now

Meet me in the middle of the day

Let me hear you say everything's okay

Bring me southern kisses from your room

Meet me in the middle of the night

Let me hear you say everything's alright



Oh now, meet me in the middle of the day

Let me hear you say everything's okay

Let me see you smiling back at me

Hey, meet me in the middle of the night

Let me hear you say everything's alright

Hold me tight and love and loving's free

Aw…right




When I came to be Jamie's wife, in his home, he finally had someone to talk to besides his mom. Jamie doesn't care if I shave my head bald due to my arthritic hands and candidiasis problems that need Frankincense oil to correct with a shaved head. My husband loves me just the way I am, and I love him in his ways as well. Marriage is not a fleeting feeling; it is a knowing. It's a union under the covenant of God that only ends when the silver cord has been broken.





Hey Jamie, remember when you made that joke about David AR White on Facebook as him being Ace Ventura and he responded back thinking it was funny? Good times. Here's the link to that post.

My husband and I wrote these vows to each other before we tangibly met. We often skyped for many hours, going past 24 hours on several occas...